I live in a Polyandrous relationship.
On August 16th my Brother Husband and I married our Wife. Not leagally as this is not possible in Canada. Or anywhere from what I can see.
In front of 30 friends, supporters and an officiator we said our vows and exchanged rings, which we all wear on our right hand. The rings are three interwoven silver bands.
The sun shone down on us in our backyard where we all live together. Our children watched from the deck and champagne was flowing. Two round white cakes were cut and shared among the gathering and the party went on till the wee hours of the morning.
Many of the attendees are from the local Polyamory Society and in order to avoid possible legal hassels the event was called a commitment ceremony. PResently the issue of Polyamory and multiple consenting congigal unions it before the Provincial Courts in an effort to separate us from the negative aspects of Polygamy in such areas as the religious compounds such as Bountiful in British Columbia.
We are three worldly adults in our forties with children and a home and who love each other intensely. We have chosen this life to benefit each other and our family. To share this life and its challenges together as a unit.
This blog will hopefully document the aspects of this “marriage” and the trials, tribulations and joys that come with it.